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Do you have a story to tell? Of course, you do! You don’t need to be a famous trailblazer or world traveler to think your story is worth sharing. From everyday moments to life-changing decisions, we all have experiences that matter, especially to our loved ones.
In my latest Tiny Tip Tuesday video on the Write Your Family History YouTube channel, I break down how you can start writing your memoir in simple, manageable steps. If the idea of writing your life story feels overwhelming, don’t worry—you don’t have to write a perfect book in one sitting! In fact, the most meaningful stories often start small, with just one memory.
Break Down the Memoir Writing Process
The key to starting your memoir is understanding that it’s a process, not a marathon to be completed in one day. I encourage you to start with one vivid memory. For me, it was remembering the day Ms. Gloria Miller visited my high school to promote the Miss Fort Bend County Teen USA pageant. That single memory eventually grew into my book, From Metal to Rhinestones: A Quest for the Crown.
The goal isn’t to create a polished final product right away. Just focus on getting your memories on paper. After all, you can’t edit something until you’ve written it! In the video, I share more about how freeing yourself from perfectionism can open the door to a steady flow of memories. Writing becomes so much easier when you give yourself permission to start small and write in short bursts.
Utilize Memory Triggers
If you’re struggling to get started, memory triggers can help. Old photos, journals, letters, or even keepsakes from your past can be powerful tools to unlock forgotten moments. When I look at an old photo, I ask myself questions like:
What was happening at the moment the picture was taken?
Who was involved, and what were we doing?
What happened right before or after this picture?
In the video, I dive deeper into how these triggers can prompt more detailed memories. I share how reflecting on an old family story about my parents—how they met at a concert, thanks to a guy named Moose—raised questions I’ll never have answers to. It’s a great reminder of why it’s so important to capture these stories while we can.
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Writing in Short Bursts
Life can get busy, and the idea of dedicating time to writing every day might feel impossible. I get it—I’m a realist. Sometimes, 10 minutes a day is asking a lot.
Instead, I recommend setting aside regular writing sessions, whether that’s once a week or once a month, and working in short bursts. In between sessions, let your memories percolate, and you’ll be surprised how much easier it gets to write each time.
Ready to Start Writing the Story of You?
If you’ve been waiting for the right moment to start writing your memoir, this is your sign! Whether it’s one memory or five, the most important thing is to start. In my video, I share a fun challenge to help you get the ball rolling: write a list of five vivid memories from your life. Once you have that list, pick one and start writing.
Want to Dive Deeper?
There’s so much more to explore when it comes to writing your memoir! For more tips, personal examples, and strategies to make the writing process fun and manageable, watch the full Tiny Tip Tuesday video on the Write Your Family History YouTube channel.
